sometimes i just couldnt understand why do people like to compete with each other. it maybe make sense to those who like to compete. but for me i really doesnt like the feeling. are they happy when they can finally beat their opponent? so what if they win? what's the point of winning when they hurt somebody else's heart instead? do they ever think about the people around them? how do they feel? i know for us to survive in this world, we do have to compete with each other to stand out so that we can get what we want. but why don't they compete with their ownself instead? believing that next time would be better. i think believing in yourself is the most important. dont find others and make them as your opponent and then think of winning only. what if the opponent you find is your own friend and he or she finds out about it? did they ever thought that it might hurt their own friends just for their own benefits? i always tell myself..darlene whatever you do, fight for yourself but not others, go beyond yourself but not others...if it doesnt kill you, it will only makes you stronger!